A new birth or the arrival of a new member of the family has always been an occasion to celebrate. Naming ceremonies traditionally mark the moment when a child is given their chosen name in addition to the family surname.
Naming or Welcoming Ceremonies: a secular alternative to a christening
In an increasingly multi-ethnic and secular society, an inclusive alternative to religious initiation rites in a church, synagogue or temple such as a christening, baptism, or brit milah, is more and more sought after. Some families decide to combine the two, with a secular ceremony following on from the religious one because they are a great opportunity to celebrate the new arrival with family and friends and allow you complete freedom. They also give you the chance to mark other significant events such as a new adoption or the transition for a child from being fostered to being formally adopted.
In Italy, naming ceremonies are generally called “welcoming ceremonies” so we will use both these terms in this article.
Things to think about when planning a naming or welcoming ceremony
The parent (s) or caregiver (s) can contact a professional celebrant who will help them plan a ceremony and discuss the various options. An important first consideration is when to hold the naming or welcoming ceremony. Some families want a celebration to hold it very early: a celebration of birth. Others might use the excuse of the child’s first birthday. For older children, a significant date— the signing of adoption papers, for example— can be found.
The ceremony can be held anywhere: in a private garden, on the beach, with a picnic in a park, or in a venue. It is important to plan your ceremony at an age-appropriate time of day for the child, preferably not at nap or feeding time. The ceremony should be intense and impactful, but short and sweet — generally no more than twenty minutes.
Once the date and place have been agreed, you should think about the following points:
who you might want to ask to say something
what message you want to convey in the ceremony;
is there a significant song or piece of music you want to include?
are there any readings that might reinforce your message?;
who will you choose as godfather/godmother (mentor, or special friend)?
will you or anyone else (grandparents) say any vows?
do you have a symbolic gesture or action in mind?;
is there a special gift for the child?
will siblings or other relatives have a role and what might that be?
how will you keep the children happy and entertained?
Once your celebrant knows what you have in mind, they will create a first draft of a ceremony script, which they will share with you so that you can make any changes you see fit. On the day of the ceremony, your celebrant will be at the venue early to welcome your guests and conduct the ceremony in a professional and friendly manner.
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