{"id":397433,"date":"2023-06-15T22:56:02","date_gmt":"2023-06-15T20:56:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebranti.com\/?p=397433"},"modified":"2023-11-13T11:09:52","modified_gmt":"2023-11-13T10:09:52","slug":"gli-sposi-mi-chiedono-una-dedica-e-ora-che-faccio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebranti.com\/en\/gli-sposi-mi-chiedono-una-dedica-e-ora-che-faccio\/","title":{"rendered":"The bride and groom have asked me to say something at their wedding: Help!"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"397433\" class=\"elementor elementor-397433\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-6f4d2cdc elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"6f4d2cdc\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-18e0baf0\" data-id=\"18e0baf0\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7a9e6fe1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7a9e6fe1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-no-translation=\"\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<style>.elementor-element-7a9e6fe1{display:none !important}<\/style>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-e3f5821 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"e3f5821\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-no-translation=\"\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-b89065f\" data-id=\"b89065f\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-267ab6f elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"267ab6f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-no-translation=\"\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">The bride and groom have asked me to say something at their wedding: Help! <\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-3ffcf41 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3ffcf41\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-no-translation=\"\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-f27ba78\" data-id=\"f27ba78\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c334441 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c334441\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>You are a friend, best man, maid of honour, or relative of the bride or groom and you have been asked to <strong>speak at their wedding<\/strong>. Don&#8217;t freak out! It is a great opportunity to give them a truly special gift.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-12c7e83 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"12c7e83\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-no-translation=\"\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4c06a2f\" data-id=\"4c06a2f\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f69c735 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f69c735\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ol><li>The best dedication is one you have written yourself.<\/li><li>You can talk about your relationship with the couple, why you are important to one another, or what you wish for their future.<\/li><li>You shouldn\u2019t talk for more than three minutes. <strong>Short and sweet is always good<\/strong>, but five minutes is already too long. Keep in mind that 130\/140 words spoken at a nice slow pace takes about one minute.<\/li><li>Try to <strong>address both spouses<\/strong>. You may have more of a history on one side than on the other but bear in mind that <strong>two people are getting married.<\/strong><\/li><li>Some couples prefer a surprise, while others will want to know what you will be saying in advance. Either way, <strong>never<\/strong> <strong>improvise<\/strong>! Contact the celebrant and send what you have written directly to them so that they can include your words in their script.<\/li><li>One thing you should always avoid is being vulgar. A dedication during a wedding ceremony is not to be confused with a drunken after-dinner speech. <strong>The couple wants their ceremony <\/strong>to be<strong> special<\/strong>, <strong>emotion-packed and unique<\/strong>, and the moment should never be trivialized. 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